Obviously you care enough to think about it, this shows you are a kind person, a little guilty, don't be. Your lives took different paths. That is what wwe call life.

Here is another side of the coin:

I was married to a controlling abusive person. I had to take my kids with me because he wouldn't watch them and I felt guilty always asking relatives to watch them. It was easier not to go out many times. I did work outside of the home, my one saving grace. My ex checked all my e-mails, so I never asked people to e-mail me. My ex would forbide me from associating people who weren't like 'us', no kids, not married, etc.

Fast forward quite a few years, when my ex became my ex. Some people who distanced themselves from me simply got a e-mail or note saying I had moved, here is my new contact information, oh by the way I changed my name (subtle way of telling them I'm divorced) contact me if you wish.

That was it.

I didn't chase people down to be my friends. With the aid or therapy I dont' unload my life issues on people, it isn't fair to them.

I'm not telling you this to make you feel guilty, just saying, she may just want to be polite on her side too.

She may just want work contacts, hard to say.

It is your choice, good luck with it.