Resurrecting a friendship, or letting it lie?

[lph]

I know how you feel, and I'm sure many others here know the feeling too. Unfortunately there is just no good way to say "I'm sorry, I know we had a good friendship at one point but it's not there now and I don't want to keep in touch with you" without sounding like a cold-hearted b****. I'm guessing the guilt is from ignoring her, not from actually letting the friendship go. I've done the same, and hoped things would just fizzle out. It's a bit hard when people view a friendship differently.

[Irulan]

What I get out of this is that the friendship never had that much meaning for you to begin with, and it's nothing to feel guilty about. People grow and change, and if there'd been a deep connection to begin with, you'd be excited to have rediscovered each other, not dreading it.