He died, the family is fighting, need advice

[indysteel]

Stay out of it. You could well be wrong that getting the photos will put the kids in the better place. Remember you--a person outside the family--were one of only four people invited; that might sting to them.

[shootingstar]

Best to stay out for a long time.

If you personally meet one of the children face to face several years from now, you can offer discreetly a pic or 2. His wife doesn't need to know. These are adult children.

Have to let the anger die down for now.

[OakLeaf]

+1 on staying out ... with one exception: if the rest of the family doesn't know where the niche is, then I would tell them. I think they have the right to know that. And you're not so much connected to that bit of information, as you would be to actual pictures.

If they want pictures, they can take their own; if they want to visit his niche and remember their father individually or together, they can do that, too.

[uforgot]

Stay out of it.

[Catrin]

Run, run some more, and then run like hell..

[Crankin]

Niche?

[Zen]

Let some time pass, maybe then.
I know you won't forget about this.
How sad.

[OakLeaf]

Niche?

In a communal wall or chamber of cremated remains.