
Originally Posted by
buffybike
I actually liked having my "illness" all to myself (is that selfish?).
This. I was enjoying it too. I wanted it to be 'my thing' that he couldn't have. but then my husband started getting into it too. I don't mind him having a bike (I encourage everyone to have one!!), but he started talking like a 'cool' mountain biker (whatever that is, I just know you 'bomb' down stuff, and 'fly'...you don't ever 'ride'..haha) and like he knew everything about bikes...and has put only a fraction of my time investment into it. It really bugs me. And I am so glad that you said this...it validates my feelings. So, thank you.
2011 Specialized Dolce Elite/stock Riva
2010 Jamis Durango 1 Femme
2006 Diamondback Wildwood (gift from my mother-in-law, so I must keep it! It is really comfy to ride)
1996 Raleigh M-20 (got my love for cycling going!)