Thanks, Lisa...
It's just that we all come up with our own solutions and it made me think that I am not "organic" enough for this forum .
My problem is mostly solved 95% of the time when I am at home, though.
And thanks for the Anti-Monkey Butt powder suggestion (that was you?). I found the regular brand at the drugstore and I am going to order the "lady" brand. It got Steve to switch from all these years of using baby powder.