Maybe some marriage counseling anyway? Obviously there are some issues here. I bet they were there before, but major lifestyle changes can bring them up to the surface.
People DO work things out when they have huge differences. It takes two, it takes being able to get your need met on your own (without depending on the other person for validation, being able to handle being along etc) but it mostly takes two emotionally strong and emotionally healthy people to make this work. My vote is for professional help before you give it up.



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