I know how you feel, Road Vixen! I ride with music "all the time" too, and while I don't feel bored without it, I feel twice as energetic, strong and gutsy with music. I can slack off something awful without. Which is fine if I'm cruising near the beach with my son on holiday, but a drag if I actually have to go a long distance on my own and reckon on getting tired and downbeat on the way.
I second the earbuds-on-bra-strap idea, but do check out in advance if that's ok, or if they really mean it with NO music players. If they do, try playing something fun and upbeat in advance in the car like nybiker says so you're in the mood
, and I'm sure adrenaline will kick in and do the rest. If you get company you'll be fine.
Winter riding is much less about badassery and much more about bundle-uppery. - malkin
1995 Kona Cinder Cone commuterFrankenbike/Selle Italia SLR Lady Gel Flow
2008 white Nakamura Summit Custom mtb/Terry Falcon X
2000 Schwinn Fastback Comp road bike/Specialized Jett