OK... Lise... SCORE on that date! Woot! hehehehe... hey a chick can dream or being more like "Samantha" from Sex and the City!

mtbdarby... cool! I wanna hear all about your date too! I can't be the only one hearing bizarre stuff out there... comeon gang, fess up...

bcipam- OMG! This is the horror story people talk about with online dating... I've been very, very lucky and every single person so far has been who they said they were... (some forgot to mention Ironman... but yeah, he rides!)

I would NOT get involved with this person. You're right, you don't know him, and he has issues that are way beyond you, unless you are a professional counselor...

I would let him know that you are empathic but that he should seek some help professionally. I would feel horrible for him too, but there are so many red flags there that I'd be running the other way. Sorry to hear you had a crappy experience...