another bike date... he neglected to mention...

[Trek420]

Lise writes "Trek, I hear ya. I played for the girls' team for years, now giving the guys a shot. I didn't actually move in with a girlfriend on the 2nd date, but mentally, well...."

Lise, you go girl. I like men, some of my best friends are men, men are cool, men're wonderful. I'm as capable as any gal of appreciating them aestheticly as in "Gorgeous George is hot " or "look at the legs on that guy" and their personality as in our Team Testosterone guys here. As for dateing 'em, nah, not gonna happen.

Although it would give me more options on a Saturday night ;-)

Although I'm not a "gold star lesbian" (translation for those who bat for the major leagues-"never slept with a man") it was so long ago it doesn't count. But I'm kinda hard wired this way I feel, or for the more spiritual amoung us g** made me this way.

Try off road? sure
Give a fixed gear a try? deffinately
Gu instead of Hammergel? sure, why not
Give guys a shot? nope
And where is the jersey that says "sorry guys, I'm gay"?

But I agree whichever team you bat for you gotta get to know the person really really well first.