Hi! It's Mark from Heavyglare here. I hope I'm not out of line, but when our name comes up in posts and blogs, we try to pay attention, and help where we can.
I forgot about an Oakley that you might like. It's called the Commit. There are two lens shapes for it. It works like the Half Jacket or Flak Jacket and is designed for women. It has a much less aggressive look than the Half Jacket, Flak Jacket or Jawbone. With regard to the Rudy Project Girl line, it's the same as the regular line with regard to frame shape and construction, just in softer colors. Parts and lenses even interchange with the non-girl versions.
I hope this helps!
Mark Busse
A.B.O.C.
Heavyglare.com