okay so checked two places so far, sportsoptical.com and heavyglare.com. First one has endorsement from some members here. Second place just what's on their web site.

The second site had a picture of the different models and now I'm really confused. I like the Oakley's enduring edge and eunduring pace for its styling but for prescription they have to cutout the one piece "lense" and insert a prescription lens. This obviously will make the glasses look REALLY ugly. Same with Rudy project Freeon.

The man at heavyglare.com a former cyclist (only rides on euro bikes with campy parts... no index shifting --- a purest!) suggest Rydon, half jacket, flak jacket, jawbone. none of these appeal to me. They look too testoserone driven mean. I want something bit more sedate and not so mean looking. I don't expect cute or pretty just something stylish and sensible. Or is this too much to ask?

Any suggestions? Or do you think Rudy Project ones are not that mean looking and I just need to get over it?

Suggestion from the cycling purest: Smith Redline; RudyProject's Rydon II, kerosene; Oakley's half jacket, flak jacket, jawbone.

meh~~

The ever lucky dude i know suggest a closed frame with thicker frame on the bottom like the jawbone. he said if I were to crash on my face, the thicker bottom portion of the frame will keep it from cutting into my face. Ohhh... true..

still meh~~~
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I also don't want to look too dorkey.