(((((((staceysue)))))))
So sorry you have to deal with this. I live in the country, too, and I completely understand everything you're saying.
I just have one thing to add:
You don't have to take your front wheel off to put your bike in a Prius. (Not unless you have passengers and need to keep the back seats up, anyhow.)
I don't take the wheel off my 50 cm road bike, and I've carried a buddy's 58 cm road bike, and there was room for a bike bigger than his. It slides right in.
You'd be amazed at what can go in the back of your Prius... and so will everyone at Best Buy. 
KC, she has plenty to get a restraining order in Ohio. It's different in every state. As is the issue of whether it has to be a domestic situation, or whether stranger stalking qualifies. It wouldn't hurt to talk to a lawyer, although when someone's really wacko as this guy sounds like, it's debatable how much good a court order will do...
Speed comes from what you put behind you. - Judi Ketteler