I had ankle surgery back in '93 while living alone. I did stay with my parents for a few weeks immediately afterwards, but after that I was back in my 1BR apartment in NYC. A few years before that I had a benign growth chiseled off my shoulder blade when I lived in Chicago, a thousand or so miles away from all my family.
Before the ankle surgery I stocked up on groceries, particularly stuff that was easy to fix. (I'm a lousy cook, so most of what I eat is easy to fix anyway.) I also found it easier to use paper plates and plastic cups so I wouldn't have to worry about cleaning up afterwards. Also make sure you have plenty of non-food items like soap, shampoo, toilet paper and any medications you take.
You'll also want to have clothes that are easy to get in and out of. For your shoulder, you'll probably want tops that button or zip up rather than go over your head.
I could be wrong but I'm assuming you might have limited use of the hand/arm where the surgery is taking place, so you might want to think about putting important things in containers that are easier to open than what they normally come in. Like any medicine that you currently have in child-proof containers or food that you'll want to eat that comes in jars.
You might also want to think about how you'll entertain yourself while you're recovering -- stock up on DVDs, magazines, books, maybe buy a new CD or two to listen to.
Good luck!!



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