how much do you give to a fund?

[Brandi]

When I first saw this thread, I thought you were talking about Lorelei. I just read your previous post and saw that this is about another niece and that Lorelei is fine. I am sorry to hear about Emily, but I am glad to learn that Lorelei is doing well. http://forums.teamestrogen.com/showthread.php?t=34751

To answer the query in this post, donate what you feel is appropriate, balancing the financial needs of the extended family with your own. I am sure that anything you can do will be appreciated.

I wouldn't be able to write about Lorelei. I am much closer to her then I was with Emily. At least at this point in her life. Emily started drifting when she was about 14 and we moved away. Does not mean i didn't love her any less or cried any less for her. But Lore is so young...I would be a mess and don't want to even think about it.
I am very glad Lorelei is doing good too!

[Brandi]

We gave till it hurt. And we hope it helps them with the expense's they had to deal with it. I feel good about it. It hurt so good....you could say.