When my daughter was born, I was leaving the hospital and my husband had purchased the FRILLIEST, LACIEST, FLUFFIEST, PINKISH dress he could find to dress his new baby girl in for her homecoming outfit. So, there we were, he pushing me in the wheelchair down the hospital corridor and me, holding our new, very feminine, pink baby. A lady came up to me and said "Ohhhh - a new baby! Boy or girl?" My DH said "OH, we haven't decided".......