I was in a funk for a while. I had my son, immediately lost the weight because of nursing, but then gained when the nursing stopped. I thought I was going to have another, a number of false starts, until I accepted it was not going to happen (I figured, why put a lot of effort into losing weight and getting tight abs if I am going to get pregnant again?) Then I had an operation that put me out of commission exercise-wise. Afterwards, I bought a bike and started to do decent rides, but I needed more. I finally signed up with a local gym - they have a four month program called 'transform' - they measure, weigh you, follow your stats, you are followed by a trainer and nutritionist during that time, then continue on your own after four months. I have a ciricuit training program and I do the spinning classes, which are fantastic workouts - I rarely get that intensity on the roads (hard when you have a child with you most of the times). The people there are great and gunning for each other. I am starting to see results and I doubt if I would have had the motivation if I was not being coaxed along by the staff and the great people at the gym. Give it a thought - a year ago, I would have never thought I would gone to a gym, just hated them, but now I see results. Good luck, we are all behind you!