Quote Originally Posted by Mr. Silver View Post
I agree to a point. We may be splitting hairs here, but adultery addiction does exist, we simply call it something different - hypersexuality and pathological lying are recognized clinical disorders; adultery can be a symptom of these disorders IMHO...but I also would agree that they are better controlled in a healthy relationship, albeit, it would be hard for me to imagine someone with these disorders actually having a healthy relationship.

I'm curious how like2 is receiving all these thoughts and if the situation has evolved/improved any...
To continue the discussion...it appears you are equating adultery with sexual addiction. That's pretty simplistic. I disagree with you that someone who commits adultery automatically has a "disorder," which connotes a pathology, a disease. There are two people in a marriage, and each has equal responsibility to make that marriage work--in all sorts of ways. Marriage is not solely about sex, and neither is adultery.