Like2bike2, I'm sorry. It's painful stuff.

I don't usually post about people's personal stuff because I often don't know the person well enough to feel qualified to comment. But.

Lying is an absolute, not a relative, problem. I think that's really fair and accurate to say. I don't think habitual lying and good relationships can ever go together. Integrity matters.

I am really sorry. You will get through this and come out the other side---that's not always easy to remember when you're in the midst...but you will.