I often chime in on these, because I've been here before. I like what Mimi said.

No, it's not just HIS problem...as long as there are TWO people in a relationship, every problem requires mutual resolution and mutual understanding. The key is that he's trying to understand and is "being a trooper" and I think you care as well.

For me, I got over it when I got to know the guys (and their wives). It was the guys I didn't trust...