As someone who's just lived through a 2nd divorce (both at my initiation) let me say that I'm in this boat because I "changed my profile." Not online, literally, of course, but I adjusted and accommodated myself to be more of a fit, and wound up very unhappy. And I really tried (13 years the first time, 10 the second).

So now, yes, sometimes I'm lonely. But lonely beats miserable hands down.

I'm really not bitter but I've learned my lesson. I'll be myself (best foot forward, of course) and if my real self attracts someone, it'll be for the right reasons.

Now, where are those cycling single web sites?

That said, I'm sure none of you are putting out psycho vibes because you are all great women and wonderful people. Doctorfrau, your date sounds great to me!