Since I've worked in a predominantly male environment for years, many men have said independent, strong women intimidate them. That shouldn't be cause for any to change their profile. It's better for them to know long before than shortly after. It's better for you, too. Being strong and independent is something you can't hide and shouldn't want to either. Be yourselves and Mr. Right will come along. Hopefully Mr. Right will not want to change you either.

Above all, live life to its fullest and be happy regardless of relationship circumstances. Being in a relationship can be very trying and difficult at times so you need that stability and independence going into a relationship. You only have one shot at this so make the most of it. People, including men, are attracted to women who enjoy life, are interested in life, are positive, happy, and have hobbies. You can't expect a man to fulfill your deepest needs. Humanity is too frail for that kind of pressure.

People cannot make you happy but they can enhance your happiness.

doctorfrau, him taking the parking mishap and fine in stride is a good thing. That would tick some off and you'd hear the soap box lecture for 5 minutes.