Well the way I see it, she expressed herself as to what she wanted, but the circumstances changed after they departed from each others company.

I agree that when he came home and saw that you were not there yet, he should have (in my opinion) called you to see where you were at the least.
I would think he would have been concerned about why you weren't home yet. Especially since he did not get your text.
Basically the way I see it, he owes you a heartfelt apology.

Unfortunately, Most Men, tend to be self serving first and then think about others, where Women tend to think of others first and then think about themselves, if there is time left to think about themselves.
This difference in behavior leads to many a fight between couples. Women think "why doesn't he think about me", and men think "ah she said she would be fine, I'm going to take a shower".