Karen- Glad you're feeling better about it. I'd be aggravated too - if I'm not where someone expects me, it's always nice if they call and check. Vent away.

Limewave - it really sounds from your post here (and from some of your previous posts about your relationship) that you have some very serious issues going on. I have to echo what others have said - please seek the help of a professional - for you and for your kids!

CA