Bad husband! No nookie!

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I understand you are angry...but it seems like you are angry because he didn't do what you wanted him to do, yet it seems like you gave the opposite signals.

You said "Go on for your ride"

You texted him from your friend's saying you were there. You did not mention if you said in your text that you would like a ride home, but I assume you did not. It seems reasonable that he would have figured you were hanging out and would come home afterwards.

It also seems reasonable that if you wanted a ride, you could have asked for one when you texted him.

But I get it...he should have known. It's hard to realize that sometimes we have to actually say what we want.

EDIT: I see that you mentioned that he did not read the text so he did not know you were at your friend's. Ah, well, sometimes things don't work out like we want them to. Next time, you'll know to be more specific. We cannot control what people do, we can only control our responses to what they do.