Objectification, by definition, is turning a person into an object--it impersonalizes the person, and I think it's odious whether done by women or men.
But this thread is the exact opposite of objectification--Zen met the guy, enjoyed talking with him, and would have liked to get to know him better. There isn't anything wrong with appreciating looks as part of the totality of a person. I don't objectify my husband by looking at the picture on my desk and thinking "oooh, nice."
And I guess it's not really the opposite of objectification--that would be personification (which I do with my bike all the time!).
Sarah



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