Good news! I just went for a 15 mile ride (I know, still short, but hey I have to start somewhere) and I don't feel nearly as sore as I had been. I took 2 days off before I went this morning. I think my saddle is actually right for me, I feel it supports me where it should. I did realize though that I think I had been leaning too far forward on the girly parts when in all actuality I should tilt my hips a bit to shift my weight more towards my sit bones/behind.