To him, it is.
I am sure many of us have had relationship crises that totally have taken over our lives. Even though men are portrayed as not having these feelings, in reality, this happens to everyone.
I think he is honestly seeking advice from women, who he views as open and accepting. Yes, as Lisa says, it would to get advice from those closer to him, but how many of us have come to TE to ask this type of personal question?
Celery, let us know what happens.