Elope?

[BleeckerSt_Girl]

I think the whole point of all this is for each couple to do what would make them happy. That's different for different people, of course.

[indysteel]

I think the whole point of all this is for each couple to do what would make them happy. That's different for different people, of course.

I agree. The purpose of my thread was to help me discern what might make me/us happy. Beyond the general idea of eloping, I can't say that I'm completely sure. I know more of what I don't want (a big expense, family feuds, extra stress) than what I do. Or, if I do know what I want, I'm not entirely sure at this point on how to translate it.