Downsized - Again

[Running Mommy]

BIG HUGE HUGS!!
So sorry to hear this Dar, I've been looking on and off, but here in the Phoenix area we have been hit hard. It's just ugly out there right now. BUT you have some skills there ma'am, so there is something out there for you.

Lise- Give John my best! So glad to hear that you are going on with the wedding. I knew you would end up getting married. I'm SO happy for you!!!

Keep your heads up all, it WILL get better!!

Denise

[ilima]

Sending lots of virtual hugs

((((((DAR))))))

Don't take this personally. This is not your fault and it's nothing to be ashamed of. It is really scary out there now.

[OakLeaf]

((((((Dar))))))

What a raw deal.

You'll get through it - I can sense your determination and creativity. Imagination is 90% of what it takes to weather any crisis, and it's plain you have that in abundance.

[Aggie_Ama]

((Dar)) That sucks and a crappy way for them to handle it but your attitude is admirable. On the bright side you will be home and can maybe provide some positive comforting to your son to help him get a little more adjusted? I don't have any advice on your job search but try to keep upbeat. A positive attitude can only help!

[SJCzar]

Oh Dar, that really stinks. I know how happy you were to be able to work out of your home. Selling your house and moving to a new city was a huge decision for you. At least now you're in a bigger town that may provide a few more opportunities for you.

This may call for a meet-up for margarita therapy and a nice long ride.

[Red Rock]

Dar- I am sorry to hear of your terrible news. Whith your skill set something has to be there for you.

Congrats Lisa on getting married! There is never a bad time for that.

I have been out of work now for almost a year. My husband and I have started our own Landscaping business. We have two clients and have been doing the word of mouth advertizing method. My husband was able to go back to work for the City on a part time basis, so that will help. I keep looking for work but no bites yet.

Red Rock

[nancielle]

So sorry to hear this. How frustrating to have this happen again in such a short period of time. You appear to have a ton of marketable skills and hopefully you'll find something worthy of your time/talents soon.

[tctrek]

You will land on you feet! Reading your skills, you are well-rounded and could do a lot of things. Remember that the confident people get the jobs, so don't even THINK about being a loser.

Check this out: http://www.ehow.com/how_4546826_beco...r-shopper.html

I have a girlfriend who did this while she looked for work and it helped her to stretch her money longer. Your own hours. She gets paid for going to the movies, purchasing/returning merchandise, etc.

Beware - do not look at any offers where they ask you for money. The jobs my friend takes do not require her to put out any of her own money.

Just a thought.....

[short cut sally]

Dar so sorry to hear about your recent stretch of bad luck...things will be looking up soon..keep up the spirits. Best of luck

[runningteach]

I'm sorry. My fingers will be crossed that you find something soon. The economy is horrible.

[wildhawk]

Sorry to hear about your job loss - but as others have stated it is your positive attitude that will get you through this. I have many friends in the same boat, but they have changed careers and actually came out in a better, although no as well paid position. They are happier since the company we work for is a very high-stress demanding co. We had a layoff back in December and the writing is on the wall that they want young, fresh out of college, graphic designers who already know all the latest software, etc. I was told that I have six months to learn the new equipment and software or its bye-bye with no severance package. I have worked at this company for 19 years and been in the graphics industry for 30+ years, and kept up with the latest software too. The real reason is that I am now a liability as an older, overpaid worker. So while I am “training” to try and hold onto my job, I am also putting in some serious time with my lifelong dream to do fine art full time - I would suggest that you look at your skillsets and put your time and talents to work at home. I have two friends that turned ebay selling into a full time job - from their home. They go yard-sale hopping, picking up inexpensive items that they know the real value of, and turn around and sell them on ebay. So far they are doing great. Another friend is giving private piano lessons from his home. Best wishes to you - I know that you will be o.k.!

[papaver]

I hope you'll find a better job soon!

[mtbdarby]

Thanks you guys! I got a nice ride in yesterday to clear my head and spent today in the yard and flower bed. This week is all about me and riding/working out ending with a trip to door county with a group of friends and my son for the weekend (already planned and paid for).

The next week I will hit the ground running and I'll keep you posted. I really appreciate your words of encouragement and hugs - I really needed them! You ladies ROCK!

[jesvetmed]

Go get em! Hugs to all of you going through these hard times and looking for work. I have positive hopes for everyone!
Jes