I am the frightening spitting image of my father's natural mother. It is haunting because she died when he was 3 and he has no memories of her, very few of his father. He does have a picture of her, same bone structure, same smile, same eyes, same nose. Yet everyone says I look just like my mother because we are both 5'2". Our builds are not even remotely similar other than height, it is kind of funny. My father has become friends with his natural brother again, I guess that is weird way to put it but Dad was adopted and he natural brother is older and stayed with the family. I have yet to meet him but Dad said he was shocked at the striking resemblance between his mother and my photo. I find it comforting because I want to be connected to my dad's roots, it is weird knowing he was adopted. I can only imagine why he can seem so conflicted.
Lisa- Your daughters are beautiful. You can tell you are their mom but I agree one looks nothing like you but looks like your child. Fascinating.
DH and his brother are like that, spitting image of their dad (and often mistaken for twins) but you know looking at pics of him and their mom and you know they are hers.
Amanda
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