Thanks Tulip.
So basically it was a disaster. I walked in to the office and the LCSW took one look at me and said, "You don't look disadvantaged. I specialize in helping the disadvantaged." So I said to her, "Well, why did your staff schedule the appointment for me when I very clearly explained the reason(s) I need to talk to someone." 
So I guess it's back to square one...
I also just found out that DBF has an interview for a job in Hawaii. I can go w/ him, but I would have to give up my career, or I can stay here for my career and give him up. Obviously right now it's just an interview, but all these crazy situations are running through my head... I really want to go, but I'm scared to give up all that I've worked so hard for.
Andrea
1988 Bridgestone mixte
2002 Trek 2200
2011 Surly Long Haul Trucker