Try it. I have a friend who keeps complaining that her husband is a jerk (he is) and that she's tired of being the only one to raise the kids (which she is). I told her once to either do something about it, or stop complaining to me. You have a choice in life, and if you're unhappy you need to find out why and get on with it. I'm not very tolerant or sympathetic, obviously.
Of course, the last few months I've been dreaming of moving someplace tropical, selling everything I own and living on the beach. DH rolls his eyes. He needs the safety and stability of a drone lifestyle, and I'm getting much more "gypsy" in my old age. I guess I should take my own advice, huh?