I kept my own name, and my family - on the rare occasions when they send me anything - addresses me by a "married" name - i.e., Mrs. HusbandsName.
My brother has me that way in his email address book.
I just shrug it off. I've got bigger issues to worry about.
We often said, growing up, "You can call me anything you like. Just don't call me late for dinner!"
2007 Seven ID8 - Bontrager InForm
2003 Klein Palomino - Terry Firefly (?)
2010 Seven Cafe Racer - Bontrager InForm
2008 Cervelo P2C - Adamo Prologue Saddle