((((((Spokewench & kitty)))))
That's so tough. Glad she's feeling somewhat better.
Our Measle had fecal incontinence for about his last year and a half, but he could control his bladder most of the time. It obviously upset him but on balance it didn't seem like it was making his life unlivable.
Flur, I'm with the others in hoping that you never have to make that decision. We could have let our Taz starve to death because he couldn't eat, in terrible cancer pain, or let him go peacefully and painlessly. We chose the latter when his pain became so great that he couldn't rest.
Speed comes from what you put behind you. - Judi Ketteler