Quote Originally Posted by Flybye View Post
...I think the second most ridiculous piece of advice is "never let the sun go down on your anger" - the worst fights that we have had have been late at night when we have nothing left to give the world on a day when all is going well. Sleep does amazing things for perspective on problems. What seemed so huge at 11:00 pm seems so minute at 8:00 am.
more TE smartness! totally agree. contrary to conventional wisdom- which usually isn't all that wise- going to bed mad is so much more effective and efficient than trying to resolve "issues" while upset. sometimes the more compelling and urgent a conversation seems, the less we should give in to our "need" to have it RIGHT NOW!

we should collectively write a TE book on how to have a healthy, happy relationship.