For 35 miles... get some gloves that are padded on the palm... so when you lean on your hand you get some *support*.

Padded shorts are a must.

Otherwise, start getting your miles up. I know that on a Saturday... I typically ride 40 miles... and with the rest stops... it isn't bad at all.

But, you need to start riding further than 8 miles each time... and you can do it! Remember, you can stop and rest if you get tired!