Can I just add one other thing, by way of a very small consolation?

Our President-elect is the son of two people who could not have legally married in many US states when he was born.

I am the daughter of two people who could not legally marry in the state where my mother's home church was located.

Yes it's extremely sad to see those same traditions - and many of the same laws - being revived to discriminate against another group of people. But there is hope, I must believe it.