I'm the occasional "freak," like Biciclista's DH, however it's not a genetic thing I think. I learned it from my dad, and my parents' weeklong visit recently showed it.

My dad lands in Vancouver, drops off his bag and the next thing he said is: "Where is your a map?"

I gave him my little transit fold-out map with the bus routes. I saw him studying it once in a while and every time a destination in town was mentioned he took the map out of his pocket and checked out where it was, and how to get there (although I was driving). One day he had an errand to run, I dropped him off and he was supposed to walk home, instead he took the bus, no, two buses! something my husband - born in Vancouver - would have been reluctant to do.

What others say about defensive driving is great. I would just add that trip planning can increase your confidence and also your safety, as you're less likely to make sudden moves if you know where you're going. Before you leave, taking a few minutes to visualize your route, where you're going to park, etc. will help. Of course construction and road closures can throw a hammer (!) at your planning, but if you study your city map well (including one-ways) and pay attention when you walk and cycle around, it will help tremendously.

I'm all for empowering women in transportation, whether it is driving or cycling or as pedestrians! We've been in the passenger seat for too long. Don't be afraid!