Lost a mechanic (long post)

[Tuckervill]

um... I would hate to sound like I'm somehow supporting harassment or something, but to me he just sounds like a besotted idiot with bad impulse control, not some creepy jerk who does this to women all the time. I feel sorry for the guy. And of course - double sorry for fujichants who has to deal with it all.

Except he's not the type to take No for an answer. She told him to give her the bike and he took it anyway. She stayed away from him while loaded it in the car. She tried to get away, said no when he asked for a hug and then hugged and KISSED her anyway.

What would he have done if she had not resisted SO MUCH?

He gave up his right to be besotted with other women when he got married.

A simple NO should be enough.

Karen