Dear So and So

[Becky]

Dear friends who are going through relationship troubles (hereafter known as Jack and Jill):

I'm very sorry that you're having such a difficult time in your relationship right now. I can only imagine how hurt and angry you both feel right now. But please don't trap DH and I in the middle of this. We're friends with you both, and want to remain friends. Please don't make us choose sides.

Jill, it really hurt my feelings when you told me that, since DH and I were Jack's friends first, you plan to disconnect from all of the people who were part of your life together, including us. Clearly you don't value our friendship- we're just people to call when bad stuff happens (like right now). Nothing like being used....

Jack, I don't even know what to say to you. I feel like I don't know the real you. I certainly didn't expect to hear much of what I've heard, from both you and Jill.

[lph]

Jill, it really hurt my feelings when you told me that, since DH and I were Jack's friends first, you plan to disconnect from all of the people who were part of your life together, including us.

Oh, that stinks, Becky. I hope you told her so

[Becky]

Oh, that stinks, Becky. I hope you told her so

I told her that, if that's what she needed to do, I understood. I'm trying to put myself in her shoes and think about what sorts of irrational things I would say and do if I were in her place. I know that she's hurting so much right now....I don't want to be selfish or make things worse.

[crazycanuck]

Dear good vibes,

Thank you for bringing my Canuck friend's husband home safe & sound from Afghanistan.

Now good vibes, can you do the same for the rest of the tours?

C

[BleeckerSt_Girl]

Dear good vibes,
Thank you for bringing my Canuck friend's husband home safe & sound from Afghanistan.
Now good vibes, can you do the same for the rest of the tours?
C

Hi CC,
I've been trying to PM you, did you get my message? Please let me know...
Thanks, Lisa