That sounds like a good idea - just having a quiet talk when the MOH isn't around. Standing by your friends is important, but you have a life and feelings, too. It's o.k. to draw some lines for yourself and say "enough."

I just got to work and received a pre-invitation from a coworker. I'd never heard of that before, but she's getting married next May and gave everyone a little card with a picture of herself with her fiance - he was carrying her piggyback - it's a fun and playful picture. The card said, "Hold the date - May 23, 2009. Formal invitation to follow." I think that's cool, and it sounds like they're keeping it fun. Sounds like your friend needs to put some fun back into her planning process. Hope she settles down.

Deb