in addition to all this "cleansing"... if you are having sex, be sure to wipe yourself with a warm rag afterwards.... even with the smallest about of sex. you would be surpised at the amount of bacteria that results from sex (and sweat

). wipe your private's nice and clean each time and this will rid of any bacteria wanting to multiply into sometype of infection. i never go to bed without cleaning up a bit if i had sex, LOL!! i was having some problems with this a while back... maybe it was the condoms i don't know... but i had to visit my doctor like 3x in 3 months and she told me to make sure to wipe after every encounter... and haven't had a problem since. guess all that friction, sweat, etc, etc... was causing some trouble, LOL! sorry TMI... but seriously, it has helped me alot.