So it's thursday morning....

didyaride, didyaride???? How'd it go?

Sorry I missed this thread yesterday, but having been a sheepish rider myself, I found a different set of friends on group rides than the office group that normally outrides me (I hang with them as long as I can on our after work rides). I do better with my weekend group ride friends, pretty much our small gang sticks together, and if someone is feeling frisky - they say so, sprint ahead to get it out of their system, then ride back for us.

So I'm voting for going on the group ride, and you and your DH meet in the parking lot at the end. Riding within your skill/comfort level, or maybe pushing yourself a bit harder, will keep the peace between you.