Idiots or not - I'm thinking you need to see a Dr. There's a difference between numbness and loss of strength. If you've lost strength in your hand and you weren't riding - I'm athinking ya'll got more issues going on than the bike.
There are good drs out there ---really there are....maybe you can find a dr who specializes in hands.
Life should NOT be a journey to the grave with the intention of arriving safely in an attractive and well preserved body, but rather to skid in sideways, champagne in one hand, strawberries in the other, body thoroughly used up, totally worn out and screaming: "Yeah Baby! What a Ride!"