Tension Relieving Responses...

[Bad JuJu]

I thought the phenomenon of the Bubba was a southern thing. I guess they've migrated northward though.

If someone who doesn't know you gets out of his vehicle already angry with you for an unknown reason, probably nothing you can say will defuse that situation. Think about it: even if you try something like "Sorry, buddy--just trying to get in a little exercise," he's going to think you're trying to make him feel bad about his eminently exercise-free self. No matter what you say, he's going to take it badly.

I know it's hard to clam up when someone verbally attacks you with no provocation, but when we're out on our bikes, we're pretty vulnerable, so best to avoid conflict as much as possible.

[mimitabby]

No, there are Bubbas everywhere.

Raleighdon (at 5' 7 1/2") would have probably responded just like you
and then gotten very loud and ur, then he would have repeated a lot of words he learned in the Marine Corps.

Now, if it was me... I would have said, "I'm sorry; but you're going to have to catch me first" or something. nah, i'm never witty in a pinch; I'd say "Hava nice day"

[Mr. Bloom]

I'd say "Hava nice day"

That's a good response...albeit ungratifying

For the record:

• I didn't raise my voice
• I wasn't profane
• I used a firm tone, but remained calm

Around here, it's more likely to be someone driving a big American car, like a Lincoln or Dodge, smoking a cigarette, on their way to the local spa (liquor store) to buy a six pack.

Oh, so you saw him too????