I don't do anything different when my husband is away... I like my "structure."
But cold Chinese food is one of the 4 Jewish food groups.
I don't do anything different when my husband is away... I like my "structure."
But cold Chinese food is one of the 4 Jewish food groups.
To paraphrase Jane Austen, that is a truth universally acknowledged!
It sounds like Alpinerabbit is having a fine time. No matter how honest, relaxed and close your spousal/mate/whatever relations are, for some of us, there's just something about having the house to yourself. I think a lot of people are a LITTLE different in behavior when no one's around.
"My predominant feeling is one of gratitude. I have loved and been loved;I have been given much and I have given something in return...Above all, I have been a sentient being, a thinking animal, on this beautiful planet, and that in itself has been an enormous privilege and an adventure." O. Sacks
What are the other 3?
I agree with SalsaBike, when DH is out looking for new equipment for the business, I usually get a day or 2 by myself..called relaxation! I eat cold cereals for all my meals, stay in my jammies if I can, watch the tv as I finally have control of the remote..i'm total slob-just don't tell my secret!!
I get the relaxation part too, not to mention total control on what is going to happen throughout the day; but no way am i going to eat my chinese food cold.
or pizza. blech
and my DH is doing a 400 k ride saturday. he says do i mind? DO I MIND? are you kidding? I'm already planning my day!!!
Lee was away one Thanksgiving, and my Thanksgiving dinner that year consisted of a large bag of Sour Cream & Onion potato chips and a bottle of chardonnay.![]()
2009 Lynskey R230 Houseblend - Brooks Team Pro
2007 Rivendell Bleriot - Rivet Pearl
One of the reasons I have a cleaning woman is so that once a week I'm forced to straighten up the clutter. Otherwise, my house would be a nightmare!
"My predominant feeling is one of gratitude. I have loved and been loved;I have been given much and I have given something in return...Above all, I have been a sentient being, a thinking animal, on this beautiful planet, and that in itself has been an enormous privilege and an adventure." O. Sacks
The most effective way to do it, is to do it.
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2006 Colnago C50 road/SSM Atola
2005 SC Juliana SL mtb/WTB Laser V
I'm just messier .. longer..when he's not around. He is actually abit of a neat freak. ..which makes him more inclined to do cleaning more frequently. It probably all stems from his lifelong allergies to mold, dust, etc.
Otherwise my personal indulgences / junk desires, are no different when he's around.![]()