Milkbone....
I'm sorry that you are going threw this. I'm sorry that he didn't do anything for your birthday. Something tells me that even is he would of made a small attempt to get you or do something, you would of been pleased. The fact that he didn't, hurts. Then the fact that he trying to say the relationship is boring and that you need to change your personality, RED FLAGS.

You need to remember that your not the one with the problem, He's the one. If the relationship was boring to him, what did he do to attempt to make it exciting??? What has changed in his personality that it seems not to be in sync with yous???

He trying to make excuses for HIS own short comings.

My heart hurts with yours today, but remember that tomorrow will be a new day. The sun will rise and you can get threw it. my prayers are with you. Big hugs.
Just remeber it's wasn't you.