Well, I attempted to talk to him and boy have things done a 180, I tried to explain I was hurt whether or not it was intentional and then he told me he's "bored", there wasn't any clues to what the heck is going on or something was even close to wrong, we've been in committed relationship, lived together, he's been a great father figure for my boys, he has put alot of committment towards my house, physical labor and financial, we just bought a big patio set just a week ago. He told me he's bored, and tells me "yeah, I love you, but I'm just bored" I can't see how in the world he is bored between work, the boys, cub scouts, soccer, we volunteer on a rescue squad, road and mtn bike, kayak etc.... He also made the statement that I would need to change my personality - according to him this all just happened and he didn't relize any of it.
I'm assuming our relationship is over and I'm just waiting for him to finally say it, I don't want it to be over, and I love him, and am just plain miserable, but it just seems he doens't want to be here now for whatever reason.
I began crying again this morning, and tried to talk to him, (not argue by any means) and he went off the deep end yelling at me and slamming stuff telling me to stop arguing and twisting everything he's saying around, I tried to tell him I'm not trying to twist things around I'm trying to figure out what the heck is going on and why did this happen all of sudden? He says he didn't even relize it, and left in a storm....


Thanks, ladies, for the words of encouragement, you've brought smiles to my tear streaked face.