I was in the same boat as you, too many saddles and none of them worked for longer rides. I researched what the distance riders were using and ended up trying the selle an-atomica saddle. It is wonderful. No pain anywhere! It worked out so well that hubby and I now have 4 of them.

Shorts was another pain in my @ss, quite literally. I used to wear PI but realized I needed bibs and the only chamois PI offered didn't work for me. I bought some Louis Garneau from TE and they work well but not perfect. They seem to "cameltoe" and it gets a little uncomfortable after a while.

My problem is, I need a chamois that is wide in the back end. My hubby wears Castelli bibs with the KISS chamois so I tried them on and the pad seemed like it would work for me. I ordered some in my size and the pad was great in the back, but too wide in the middle and front. (BTW, they do not make castelli bibs for women with the KISS chamois or those would be the ones I would wear) SOOOOO, what I did was undo the front half of the chamois, cut out the excess material (the wings) and sew the chamois back in place. Voila! $58 shipped and 20 min to customize. I have 2 pairs with another coming soon.

I have also tried the Exto Ondo bibs with the racior chamois and it was too narrow in the back. Too bad cuz they are NICE shorts. I need to get them in the for sale section.

Good luck on finding your right combo, it took me about 8 months but now all is good on my bottom end!

Brenda