Quote Originally Posted by Mr. Silver View Post
Welcome spec&trek...

- mutual respect (as Dianyla describes as "control"): He feels offended that you're not sensitive to his fear and you feel offended that he's imposing his fear on your freedom. I think that this can be reconciled over time, but right now, it seems that there's a gap (and each of you has turned the other way, folded your arms tight and tapping your toe waiting for the other one to change) I really mean that sincerely and with no disrespect
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I'm going to print this out and hang it on my wall!!!!